Call Me by Your Name. 2017.
"In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, don’t snuff it out, don’t be brutal with it.
We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new.
But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!
Our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can’t help but live as though we’ve got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the finished version, and then there are all those versions in between.
But there’s only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it.
Right now there’s sorrow. I don’t envy the pain. But I envy you the pain.”
“因为是他，因为是我”——蒙田（Seigneur de Montaigne）
Si l'on me presse de dire pourquoi je l'aimais, je sens que cela ne se peut exprimer qu''en re pondant: "Parce que c' e tait lui, parce que c' e tait moi."